I attended a conference this weekend entitled–well the title of this post. The keynote speaker was child and adolescent Psychiatrist Dr. Jean Clinton an international advocate for children’s issues. The dynamic and often lightly humorous talk dealt with brain development in early childhood. Much information was presented, however what really stuck with me was her message of the crucial importance relationships play in a child’s development. A responsive caring adult is the key to brain development, both at home and at school. Educational toys and programs are a supplement, but in no way replace the interactive connection between parent and child, or teacher and child for that matter. It is never the stuff–not the toys, not the programs, and not the curriculum–it is always the person–the relationship with that person that makes the difference. This is such a powerful message for parents. You are what is important–you are what makes the difference!!!!